MILF stands for “Mother I’d Like to Fuck” and is a woman who is very attractive and sexy. At the same time, she is a mother to her children. The kids are most likely grown up already and on their own because the mother is free to do as she pleases.

The Unique MILF

How is the MILF different from any other woman? MILFs are not the same but they do have something in common with each other.

The more common traits of MILFs are sophistication, realistic and maturity.  The reason for this is because they have already raised children and have been around and know a lot of things.  This makes them attractive dates since they know what they want and do not want and do not beat around the bush.  They are easily swayed by generic compliments or any type of flattery.

How to Find a MILF

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Dating a MILF means that you have to question a lot of your preconceived notions about dating. For  Example, mothers do not like to go out at night because they have children. The best time to search for them is during the day.

They do not usually hang around clubs or bars.  You have to be able to know where they could be found.  Examples of good places to spot them are supermarkets, the mall, or at the neighborhood park.  This may sound unconventional if you want to pick up women. However, you have to keep in mind that you are trying to pick up a hot MILF.

Conversations with a MILF

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There is a difference between talking to a single or unmarried woman compared to talking to a mother.  The younger woman will have less experience and will fall for cheesy pick-up lines. On the other hand, mothers have been around the block for some time now and you need to know the nuance when it comes to the game of dating.

For example, it could be easy for a MILF to perceive you as a jerk.  This is because they have a lot more experience and have kids that they take care of.  The best approach is to start slowly, keep upright, and give her a sexy smile.  You wouldn’t want to send her bad vibes so be careful.

The tactic to use is to connect with her on an emotional level which is the way to a MILF’s heart. Find out what they are passionate about. It could be about books, their kids, social issues, fitness or spirituality.  An important thing to remember is that mothers are very willing to discuss their kids in detail. Even if you may not be interested, it is key that you listen.

A lot of MILFs are flattered by the idea that they can be with a younger man.  A lot are powerful and strong women who are in control most of the time, and at times they want someone who could take the reigns for a while. Being someone who will be dominant for a change can be a sexually liberating experience of these women who would not want to be always on top of everything. Try to remember that even though having sex with a MILF could be your fantasy, she is also human and have needs too.

The important thing that you have to remember is to turn up sexuality when the relationship is going further.  When you do try to compliment her, ensure that it is a  genuine compliment, You need to remember to be subtle so that thing does not become uncomfortable for her. WO go on and spice up the conversation by adding compliments.

Make Sure they aren’t Married

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You would not want to be a homewrecker. You can avoid this by making sure that the MILF is not married as soon as you meet up with her. There are many ways to do this and try to be subtle about it.

The easiest way is to glance at her hand and see if she has a ring on her finger. Even if she is not wearing a ring, the best thing to do is to simply ask her. Women would rather that you be direct about matters like this.  The worst thing that can happen is that she says that she is married so you simply walk away. You wouldn’t want to be part of any marital drama.

At the End of Things

You have to remember that MILFs are human too and they have wants, desires, passions and feeling. You may be focused more on your needs than what she wants if you are after sex.  Not everyone is a slutty MILF. However, you need to realize that you have to connect with her before you get into her pants. You need to be honest and treat them with respect which is the best way to hook up with a MILF.